Hrrmmm....Uh, I'm not sure. I'd like to think that he is because he doesn't "reprimand" me or get outwardly mad at me or anything. He always presents himself as accepting, but then again I have a lot of insight to myself and my problems and call myself out on my own BS before he even gets a chance to.

Is your T always like this? I mean, they're supposed to be on our side.....aren't they? We see them because we need help; the last thing I think that anyone of us needs while in therapy is more blame and doubt. You shouldn't have to "prove" yourself like that, imo. I believe there is a clearly marked difference between firm, yet unconditionally supportive VS just plain douchey.

So sorry you're in this position to even have to contemplate this!That's just not right.