Thanks, well there was a small party tonight and I didn't have one sip.. I dindn't think I would be able to do it.

I'm having another small problem, I guess it would relate to insecurity. As i've stated, my gf works a lot now, she used to come over after work but now she can't cus she has to be up early for 2nd job. So she called me when she got out tonight and I talked to her for a few on her way home. I then texted her just saying the normal, i miss you and everything, but it also seems like something has bothering her lately. Shes tired from work I know this, but I hate that feeling of her not telling me stuff that bothers her. I want her to be able to be open with me. So she texts me, "I'm doing somthin right now, I'll call you when I'm done." I know this could mean anything, but I can't stop over thinking it. What would she need to be doing at 1:30am? It could be at her house but I'm guessing she made a stop somewhere, and I'm just wondering what it could be and it's bothering me right now. I've been doing good since I've posted with not letting stuff bother me, but this one is getting to me a little. I'm sure if when she calls, if I asked "what were you doing?" she will get defensive and get mad and def not tell me. What should I do? I want to be able to just talk to her but she keeps a lot of things from me. And I'm not thinking shes cheating, I just don't get why if people arent doing anything bad, why do they have to hide it and not tell the other person? The thing that makes me mad is how she is secretive about things... plz help