Sometimes you just have to let them find out the hard way. When nothing you say makes any difference, then you just have to let him sink or swim on his own.

Unfortunately people like that tend to keep blaming everyone else for their trouble & never listen to what anyone has to say, therefore, they put the blame for what happens to them on everyone else.....throughout their life. If they are lucky, there may be something that gets through to them. Know there was nothing that could get through to my husband....even when I left him he refused to change & he was a good person too. But good doesn't counter the bad sometimes. When you have tried, that's usually all you can do...the rest is up to them.