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Oct 20, 2011, 07:16 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: Louisianna
Posts: 1,473
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Thanks again to everyone in this thread! Everyone has been SO brave and so courteous and understanding. (((everyone))) you have all been so wonderful. None of you are worthless, none of you are useless and used and none of you are doomed. That's what their actions caused us to believe, in a way to kind of blame it on our selves. We were bad or just not good enough so the abuse took place. We were not smart enough or pretty enough so they didn't want anything to do with us... We shouldn't have been around him when he was drinking and it never would have happened... We are doomed so all the bad things that happen to us happen because that's the way our life is supposed to be. But it's not. None of things have even an ounce of truth in them. As children we are supposed to look up to our parents for guidance, to steer us in the right direction. If we are doing something that we shouldn't be doing, as children it is our PARENTS our GUARDIANS responsibility to guide us and keep us safe. And it is the adults responsibility to not harm anyone especially a child. So whether we were punished in an abusive way or if we were violated in any other way by an adult, we were just children, they had the responsibility not us. It was their choices and it was their responsibility to control the situation and make it safe and secure for us but that did not happen and in no way is not our fault. I just wish it didn't feel like it was  but in time hopefully our view on what happened and why will change. (((((everyone))))) thank you again for all of the replies.
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