5-card stud, keep 2, turn in 3. Sounds like it's time for a MAKEOVER! Go to the beauty school if you have to, money-wise, but get it ALL done - haircut, mani, pedi, facial - and you'll both return refreshed! And get the wardrobe prepped for fall/winter if you haven't already. New scarf? Then go back and say the thing you don't want to.