as Roadrunner said, not fair not fair not fair. This is really not fair. I wish I could give you a huge hug, or lend you my shoulder, take you out for a coffee. I am so sorry it seems to be snowballing. One thing I have noticed in my life, is that when things start to snowball, is that at the end of it all things usually turn out better than before, you just have to get through it. That is a lot of losses you are being faced with right now, and at the worst time.

But I think will be able to pull through,I believe you are a strong woman Dij, and you have all of us standing right here behind you , if you need anything at all.