Be, this was the second time around for us. I've already collected allimony and gotten my share of his retirement. That's over and done with.

He is going to be held to the terms of the Legal Separation we got about 10 yrs ago and part of that was to provide medical insurance for me. He dropped it again this year because he felt it was too expensive, and it was. However, he can find another insurance and WILL provide it. I will be able to live with what Disability gives me.