well, u can't imagine how hard it was to figure our where to post this, I just dont know what to do, I am so confused and scared. I am an isolator, and keep most everyone at bay real time except my T. I suffer from PTSD, and other dx's..so its hard to trust anyone real world, here its like nervana..I can talk and not be scared..to much at least..but this..I am scard to bring up..I just don't know what to do..sorry to repeat..I have someone I work with..she is the sweetest, most dramatic caring person, and I have worked with her for over a year..she is so outgoing, and so oppisite of who I am capable of being real world, and she is a Psych Professional..over the last few months as we take breaks together and talk I have told her about a few of my struggles with PTSD, told her about some meds the dr had me on..including Ritalin, and Ativan..since that time..she has been asking me for these drugs..giving me such obvious excuses on why I should let her have them, or buy them from me, like she wants me to figure it out..I have been telling her excuses, like I can't find the bottle..or have to get a refill, etc..there is a problem here..what i thought was her normal personality, may be actually due to the meds she appears to be over using....I am afaid to confront her and "say hey you need to get some help", because she is the first person I really have been opened to having a friendship with in over 15 years, since my last friends husband raped me..I have not been able to develope a close relationship outside of work..work is it..and I want so much to be her friend..I care about her so much..what would happen if I told her is she could suddenly change and become defensive and then I would be so devastated...the only thing I know i cant do is give her the drugs...god this is so hard to figure out..I really do care so much about her...she is a sweet person, now i just don't know what to do...can anyone help me here...i don know what to say to her that wont hurt her..and me at the same time..