Yes, living with him is a stressful situation, not only because it's so hard to get him to do things that I need, but what is unbearable is the treatment he gives me, the way he talks to me and the blame I get for things I don't say or the tone I say them in. Total and complete disrespect and verbal abuse! I'm a SURVIVOR, not a VICTIM!! There's no reason for me to put up with it.