Twinks your post made me lol...I have to agree...IRL if someone sez to me...I want to lose weight..(another example) I would not say go on a diet...duh my style is more...what have you done so far ...then we move from there...seems to me I outlined all the things I have done with my friend..shes a friend so lol she knows anyhow but splat I lot that moronic reply