Thanks, Lynn. She is happy, and that's what matters in the end. Maybe I need to step away from "psychopathy" and all that it implies and just be me for awhile. I believe that the more I know about myself, the more ability I have to control and manage the behaviour. On the other hand, the propaganda and the sense of futility is frustrating.

I am willing to make negotiations and often do. Most of those I can't discuss in detail because conversation of such nature would be inappropriate on the forum, so you'll just have to take my word for it... If she were to make a pros and cons list... I don't know. I'll ask her.