I'm with Treehouse all the way. I've been working with T for 18 months and have only recently had enough insights to begin working them through. It's also psychodynamic psychotherapy, which is the only type I'm comfortable with. Considering how deeply this stuff was buried I'll be lucky if we make progress quickly. I really don't know as I'd trust a new T who assured me, oh yes, I can get you through this much faster. They're not really in control, and they do want to make sure you don't really fall apart. So, yes, raise all of these points with your now T. Talk them over at length. Take care!