I know 9 months seems like a long time, but it really isn't. I've worked intensely with 3 different T's over my adult lifetime, each for at least 3 years at a time. I've been with my current T for going on 7 years (I think; I've lost track.) Each T brought something new to the table. Each T worked with me in different aspects of my healing. You go through stages of healing, I think. Sometimes you stall out for awhile because you are in avoidance, sometimes you make progress by leaps and bounds, sometimes you are in despair.

Perhaps what is going on with you in therapy right now is really more about where you are in your journey than it is about the therapist. When you are ready, you'll move forward. Be patient with yourself.