Even if he IS attracted to you physically, and I'm not saying that isn't possible, I suggest you not bring that up. It sounds like he's already told you that he could never act on it even if he did. Of course, as you say, you feel like he's the man for you. After all, he is trained to try to help give you what you need. I fear you are setting yourself up to get your feelings hurt. I know you don't want to hear this, but if these feelings for him start overwhelming his ability to help you, then you might need to talk to him about THAT and possibly be prepared to move on.