My husband is making me crazy. He say's things about how much weight I have gained and that I need to lose some and learn to control my weight. So I go twice a week to a special exercise class. What's happening is that he cooks for me when I come home from class. I've noticed that he makes really fattening foods. Last night I told him that I wanted my soup for dinner. All he needed to do was have it warming on the stove for me. I'm on a special high fiber, low fat diet. He called and asked where I was and I said that I was almost home. I get home and he ask me for some money to pick up the food. He comes back with a large pizza and a desert pie. How am I suppose to be on this diet when everytime I turn around he's sabotaging it? He tells me I'm fat then doesn't help me control my weight. When I get home I'm so tired that all I can do is shower, eat dinner and then go to sleep. I don't need this hugh meal right before I sleep. I don't know what to do. How do I tell him nicely that he sabotaging everything that I'm trying to do? Don't tell me I'm getting fat then feed me this junk. He also has to always have something sweet to eat. He'll make dinner and then brownie or cookies or something as long is he has a desert after dinner. I have gotten to the point I just don't eat the desert. Then he'll ask me if I don't like his cooking any more. I Love his food. And I Love that he takes the time to fix my food for me. The thing is he can really really cook very well, so I Love his food. I don't want to hurt his feelings. Just confussed about how to tell him to please make the diet I'm suppose to be on.

Monty