I hear all the time about how your supposed to forgive and let go and let things roll off your shoulders. Easier said than done, but HOW can I do it? I was molested when I was little (age 9-10). Only one person in my family knows. I guess I never told them because I don't want it to be a bad reflection on me and I don't see any need in putting my pain on someone else--namely my parents. But anyways I struggle with very low-self esteem and (obviously because I'm here) depression. So HOW do I forgive, How do I let it go? I also have issues with thinking people don't want me around--that I have a habit of clinging to people. I have a hard time defining the line between clingingness and being withdrawn. Anyways I guess that's a thread for a later date...much love to everyone