my parents have been married over 25 years. my dad worked so hard to get my mom to marry him he doesn't even think of cheating although he does flirt with waitresses and cashiers. His point of view appears to be "look but don't touch". but he's never cheated on her. All things considered, if he had a choice between pamela anderson and my mother I suspect he would choose my mother. I personally feel it shows disrespect to the person you claim to love when you flirt with someone fo the opposite sex, especially in front of them. of course, he also claims to be a casanova when he was a teenager, so soem of it might stem from that.