I'm assuming the reason the man who I've been having a so-called long distance relationship has lost interest in me since the chase is over. We flirted for a few months via Facebook email & text message and finally got together once he came home for a visit. We spent a whole month talking almost daily until he came home for another visit. While he was here he told me that he might move back & I told him I'd be interested in spending more time with him. Since he left town to go back home, he quit contacting me. I email & he doesn't even respond. We've had random comment chat on Facebook, but that's it.

He said all the right things to me and I fell for it. I feel like a damn fool

He chased me, he got me, & now he's done with me. Unbelievable. I've known this man for 18 years. We've always liked each other. I would have never expected this from him. If anything, I thought we were friends....AND I know for sure that he really liked me. It's like, as soon as he knew he had me, he bailed.

Why do men do this?? I'll never understand this. It makes me so mad. We're talking about a 44 year old man, for pete's sake!