Awww Moose , you don't need or deserve this! I don't know how good I am in he friends department, but I would say this isn't a good friend. She is clearly not respecting boundries here. I am one of those people who is of the cross me a few time and I won't be coming back. I am not good at dealing with alcoholics, have you tried talking to her while she is sober, I am guessing you have.

It might be the time you have to get really clear with her about your boundries and hold your ground, and if she chooses not to repect them, then its her choice, but you don't have to put up with it ( I know you know this) It's never easy when it comes to friends hurting us. ((((Moose))))