I don't know... nobody wants to suffer, but some experiences make us stronger... or different.

If you give away your story, than who you are? My life was not the bestest thing, but I would not exchange it for growing a sheltered life... because the alternative sheltered me, would probably annoy the hell from the person I am right now.

On the other hand many cling to their unhappiness and suffering and "illnesses" as they think it makes somehow special. It is excuse for not trying and not living.

So yeah, i would want to more about the context too.