I have also posted this thread in the "bipolar" section, because I promised someone I would let her know about books on dealing with spouses who are bipolar, and now I can't find her thread. At any rate, they might be useful for this forum's readers.

"The Bipolar Relationship" by Bloch, Golden, (and Rosenfeld)

and

"When Someone You Love Is Bipolar" by Last

The first one has the subtitle "How to understand, help, and love your partner" and the second has the subtitle "Help and Support for You and Your Partner"

Anybody know of other ones? Thanks.