Face it dude. In a world where fidelity means nothing, you got lucky several times. She's clearly not interested. I can only speculate on your situation but I think she and her husband may have been having problems during the time that you were with her and when she found out what she did, she realized she needed to be with him instead of you. she may have fallen in love with him all over again. my advice to you is to find someone who is unattatched and interested. because if you contiune to consort with married women, you'll always be second fiddle instead of the king. And wouldn't you rather be able to stay in bed with your sweetheart isntead of ducking into the closet at every noise?