It sounds like it will be nice to have your own place again, room to breathe, do things your way with some privacy, not be concerned with rules that are not yours to live by and changing rules at that, and to live how you want. Until you are away from it you might not realize the extent of how overbearing the situation is. But given the circumstances, you'll probably find it welcome relief even compared to some of the concerns that worry you about this. Then with regard to family, time away truly too can heal a lot of things with family after living with them, whether you choose to keep her in your life or not. Do what you need to to take care of you and it sounds like you are doing just that! Good luck with the move and getting settled!