Absolutely doing the right thing. Hopefully you can use the time on the bus constructively, lots of people have long commutes and use the time to their advantage. The gay stuff is absolutely bizarre. Your nephew senses his parents have unresolved issues of their own, that's why he acts inappropriately as you mentioned in previous posts, and they ARE making him vulnerable. You can't live your life down to their standards. Be grateful they helped you, but you don't owe them your life now.