Hi EJ

First of all I'd like to give you a hug (((((((((((EJ)))))))))))

I have experienced similar situations with various psychiatrists/therapists. What I have learn and come to accept is that I am angry and hurt with what my mom and dad did or didnt do to me. Not my psychiatrist/therapist. The doctors words although sometimes misguided and not intended to hurt...hurt all the same.

I recommend that you speak again with your doctor or psychologist/therapist....and tell them what the psychiatrist said without embelishment and then tell them your reaction to it (what did you feel when the doctor said what he/she said to you?)...I believe once you are grounded and get back to a "feeling" state and not a reactionary state...you may not be so upset and disappointed with this doctor.

Dubz