Oh, sweetie. i wish so much I could help!

I don't want to move to my sister's because, well, 1, she's my sister and you want to talk about feeling like a reject? Trying being dead broke (already declared bankruptcy last year and need to do it again but can't), pushing 41 (on Easter! There's got to be something symbolic out of having a birthday on Easter, right?) and being forced to live with relatives because you are a complete and total fricking LOSER with nothing to show for 40+ years of life.

2, I'm trading Wisconsin for Minnesota. Both have 10-month winters. Wisconsin for California? I could dig it. Maybe we should give it a try! LOL Of course, I have no income to contribute to my upkeep.....

There's nothing unloveable about you, sweetie. It's the people in your life who are the a-holes. You don't deserve to be treated the way they treat you. You are a good person who has been through more than her share of crap, and you deserve some good things in your life, and with this jerk out of the way, I think you're going to get them! I really do!

Hugs and love and call me if you need me.

Love you,
Candy

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