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(JD) · Oct 22, 2011, 11:21 PM

(((Open Eyes)))) I didn't say forgive and walk away. I said kill them with kindness and still go forward if you have to (and it sounds like you do.)

Ok. You didn't have your animals covered under your own insurance policy. Got it.

Obviously the insurance company knows the horse is worth that...so realize they say things to rile you and make you want to quit... you know the truth, don't let what they say irk you if you can. (Got to protect yourself from that as much as you can.) (One of the disability lawyers for the opposition once mentioned to someone how he wished I would suicide so the claim would end... and they push and push to try and make you quit one way or the other. So I do know the shennanagans that go on.)

Sweetheart... you're catastrophizing. Yes, things are really being unfair to you right now about that neighbor situation...

but your PTSD might be dragging you through mud you don't need to go through.

Yes, it can be upsetting to not have the right information on medical records. Most people have no idea what is on them, and they go right on. It doesn't change what you really suffer with, no matter what is written.

I can't help you much with this extensively because it upsets me too...and I deal with a lot of what you deal with as well... and it seems all my issues end up costing me money (especially the PTSD... just because the nature of the beast...grrrrrr but that's about me, not you.)

Can your T help you make a list of what the actual realities are of your situations and events etc? Without the drama that PTSD gives you (us) ?

You don't have to answer here.. I'm trying to lead you where I had to be lead... but I don't need specifics... just throwing stuff out there...

lists... such as... have you already lost all that money? Do you have bills for the vet yet to pay or what? I mean, if it's all gone it's all gone. AND rational thinking such as, it is not an unpardonable sin to go bankrupt. (Yes, it's a no no to me too... and it would irk me greatly...but it's not the end of the world..you know? Really.... if it would solve this... ok? ) These are the things your T can really help you realize... REALITY... not the added angst that PTSD demands etc. And also about your medical records... there are ways to fix the information...but maybe the stress of everything is preventing the "getting it done well" ???

Don't kill the messenger (((O E)))

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my GP was flaming mad and handed my records to me and told me that he was not qualified to treat someone with this and that and all things that were not accruate to what I really had

This is obviously the truth. Any GP who acts out like that needs therapy himself!

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