Hello, addcolin. What else is there to do? Accept responsibility for your well-being?

The Past: Don't Dwell on It, Revision It! Part 1
The Past: Don't Dwell on It, Revision It! Part 2
The Psycho-Logic of Dreams (Pt 1 of The "Logical Illogic" of the Psycho-Logical) http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...psycho-logical
The Paradoxical Rationale for Self-Sabotage (Pt 2 of The "Logical Illogic" of the Psycho-Logical)
The "Programming" of Self-Sabotage (Pt 3 of The "Logical Illogic" of the Psycho-Logical)
Self-Sabotage and Your "Outer Child" (Pt 4 of The "Logical Illogic" of the Psycho-Logical)
Self-Sabotage as Passive Aggression Toward the Self (Pt 5 of The "Logical Illogic" of the Psycho-Logical)
The Path to Unconditional Self-Acceptance
The Danger of Letting Others Define You http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...ers-define-you
Dare To Be Yourself http://www.psychologytoday.com/print/21307
When You Don't Like Yourself http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...-dont-yourself
A Discussion of Self Hatred http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_d...38260&w=5&cn=0

Treatment Plans and their importance with a link to more articles should you miss it: http://blogs.psychcentral.com/therap...t-plan-series/
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