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in my therapy experience my T has paced me so i feel safe dealing with issues like this. he used CBT therapy which includes dealing with how one feels now. the past is just referenced so the T can understand how to coach in an effective way.
also since he is in recovery he can benefit from a 4th step or mini 4th to see his part, if any, in how events occured. or consult other members with the same issues after the mtg. they may offer suggestions of how they overcame these concerns.
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