Candy, SSDI is a national (yes infernal govt.) program. Can't you finish applying after you move?

Definitely respond though. Give more info, stalling for a little time maybe? Don't tell them too much though.

Usually hospitals have social workers that help out with this kind of info/resources...free, I think. You can walk into an ER (if you could) and ask to speak with someone in social services... usually they are glad to help!