It is what it is. Accept that it is and either be content with that or do something about it.
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Ellsworth Toohey: Mr. Roark, we're alone here. Why don't you tell me what you think of me in any words you wish.
Howard Roark: But I don't think of you!
From the 1949 movie version of Ayn Rand's
The Fountainhead
Loners are not lonely people. Lonely people are not loners.
Normal is over-rated!