Hi Nucking,

You have it from me!!! Sorry to hear you had to go through all that. Sending many supportive thoughts your way for your transition to your new place... Just think, you can invite over whomever you want. What a concept -- and no more broken boundaries with your sis rooting through your stuff. Maybe after time goes by, you might even be able to meet up with her for a meal or coffee - then happily go your separate ways.
You have been super strong through out this whole ordeal. You have my admiration for your valiant attempts at keeping up good boundaries. Hope the move goes smoothly. We're here to listen and offer support.
Elana