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Hello suzzie.
Being wrong is a thing we place upon our self's. When I used to self harm (and I never say never, I been close to re-lapse recently), to say what we are is abnormal is a label we place upon our self's.
When I cut myself I thought it was natural (it was/is natural because I did it). Nothing on earth is not natural. Nature is all that, Nature.
How we deal and cope with why we/I self harm is (to me) more important. There are sooooooooooooooooo many things in this world that trigger us, I try to be prepared now, when I feel a re-lapse coming, I am prepared for it.
Try to prepare for being trigged, in the way it comes. (triggers come in many masks).
What I do is prepare for the after-math. I know I will be 'released', but I will regret what I have done.
No T or nobody is you're sub-concious. You are you.
I know how hard it is (believe me), but you are the centre of the universe you live in. The body is 'you're' temple.
In life there are many forms of self harm.
Cutting, burning, starvation and any form of harm to the body and mind come in many forms.
Prepare you're self. Guard you're self. You are a gift on Earth.
Share you're gift.
DO NOT though deny what you are (i.e, upon a relapse you remain the same).
I do hoped this helped.
xxxxx
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