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Oct 23, 2011, 07:26 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2003
Location: Coram Deo
Posts: 35,474
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But I catch on and instead of allowing them to continue, I actually do stand up.
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Okay, what I'm trying to say is STAND UP! This is a bad guy, yet he's pushing your buttons and you're running around like a chicken... etc etc etc.
You're mind has embraced the situation to that extent, but not to the reactions you're having.
Stand up, back away from the edge... reevaluate and try to move forward without it being a personal attack on you. Regardless of what everyone else intends... this is now an out and out business dealing... they did wrong, your business suffered, they own for that. Done.
You keep adding all the angst you are feeling, and yes, I hear you... but then you add in how that angst is flowing over into other areas of your life and it seems to you, unfortunately due to the PTSD, that everything is in crisis stage.
When it isn't, really.
And ... yes, not having the money you need when you need it can be a crisis situation...but reacting or worrying doesn't do anything but make you ill.
Get me? 
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