(((((((tigergirl)))))))!!!
Surgery DOES sound scary. I'm so sorry you have to go through that.
It does feel awful when T can't take away our terror/anxiety/sadness. Is there anything that he COULD do/say that would help? Sometimes I have to provide a bit of a script for my T...but he always makes me feel okay about it, like "of COURSE, you are so smart, this really IS just what I should say".
We're here.


