I don't think I agree with you...completely at least. In my opinion, we are all adults and if someone were to ask me if I was involved with said man, I don't think I should have to deny, i.e. lie about it. I may not give out graphic details, but why should I have to deny anything??

I also think that it is a little unrealistic to always discuss matters of the heart with friends before doing anything that may mess with our heart, so to speak. Again, as an adult, we make our own decisions, are responsible for our own actions, and in the end are going to do what we want anyway. Friends or even professionals opinions are not always going to be the right thing for us. If I went by what a certain girlfriend of mine always has to say about my life and what I sometimes do, I'd be living in a dark closet by myself for the rest of my life. Lol.

I guess I just believe in taking chances in life. If it feels right, you're never going to know if it really is right unless you try.