((((((((((((Tomi))))))))))))))) I'm sorry I just saw this and am late in giving you my support. I know very well why you are doing this. I have no doubt that you can do this if it is truly what you want. We're all a lot stronger than we think we are.

Making the decision to act is the hardest thing, imo. Making life altering decisions when we are really upset, depressed, angry, etc. isn't usually a good thing. Sometimes though the anger can be used as a much needed motivater.

I've been separated twice during the 39 years I've been married. Each time was only for about 6 months. Some much needed changing took place during each separation. I often wonder if we need another separation. lol

I wish you the best during this awful time. Please feel the caring and love that I send your way. I know how it feels to watch them leave, even if it's what you want. You'll be in my heart and in my thoughts and prayers. love ya, Susan