You're correct on almost all accounts, and we are admittedly, speculating about a few things. However the therapist IS aware of what's going on at the workplace, as my friend called him recently to make him aware of it. Thats my point. The therapist knows what's going on and has done nothing about it. I think my friend's friend may also not be in any position to make good decisions. This is where a good therapist steps in, in theory, shelves the Freudian approach and gets practical. I think some therapists spend too much time inside their cozy little offices and not enough time out in the world. And yes, I've had ample first and second-hand experiences with the bunch.

And I'm not advocating that the therapist should turn into a Nazi about it. On the contrary, if he is a resourceful guy, he will tweak the therapy so that it is not continuously a problem for everyone around the guy. I happen to like the guy myself, but I also am looking out for my friend.

Thanks for your input.