Hi Lola Cabanna,

Yes, your name does make me want to go and find some old Barry Manilow album or something strange..ugh. lol I agree with Echoes to not worry so much about the label. It kind of freaked me for a while too. I think it's better to focus like she said on the fact that you are connecting to your T and want to be around her and share your life with her. In the end, this will help you learn how to open up and share with others that are important in your life. It took me a long time to trust my T and had done all kinds of things in my mind to keep him at bay. Don't know exactly what brought him inside my walls, and yes with the joy of connection comes some pain of vulnerability. There is always a balance and a light to every dark as he tells me. I'm learning to adjust and allow him closer so that he can share my pain and light those areas of darkness and fear in me that keep me from growing like I should. Yes, I miss him when I'm gone or he is, or now that I don't see him quite as often, but I'm also more comfortable because I know in my heart that he is there.

I wish you only the best in you journey of healing and discovery!

Safe hugs,
Wysteria Blue