hi Rainbow Rose,

Man, that's a tough one...guess sometimes I sort of "ease him into it" lol by alluding to it...or just writing about it and handing it to him and pacing while he reads it, or emailing him part of it and then just getting the rest out in person, or sometimes I stare out the window and tell him the story. Sometimes I just grab the whole box of Kleenex and start telling him and hide behind my hair (it's long). Sometimes when I'm done I just reach out and touch his fingertips to know that he is real and someone heard me. He is always really great about hearing and responding anyway and letting me know he was listening for the real Truth in the tale. Just do it however you can and think of the weight that will be lifted off your shoulders when your T can shoulder part of the burden and help you heal..

Gently healing huggles,
Wysteria Blue