That is the reality of meeting someone from online to real life. When I first met my boyfriend (he was from online) he was definitively not what I expected. He was short and awkward and very soft spoken. I believe he found me as awkward when we first met. It's normal. There are some times, still, when he has some issues with my occasional flailing or awkwardness in public but he's never rejected me for it. The point is that the person you meet through chat is often not going to be exactly the same in real life. In real life you see them act throughout the day. On the computer you only see a snippet of their lives. What they reveal to you.