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Old Oct 24, 2011, 02:43 PM
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I am so sorry that you have run into so many people that have clearly taken advantage of you. I have a friend that has that luck as well. And I am not going to be that kind of person. My friend paid $6,000 for replacement windows that were never installed and the builder told her that company just folded and he is out or should I say they are out.
Oh she had been manipulated, I am sure that the builder paid his bills with her money and is stringing her along.

But I am not going to fold under all this. I know about your kind of experience with that mare and how you were taken, that was wrong but that is the horse business and you have learned that, yes there are so many lies in that area. I have seen it and I have been very careful and I don't believe any horse dealer or person who is selling any horse.
Oh no, I have seen how these people opperate that area I am aware of. I have not been aware of the legal area of mishaps and I am learning. I see it now, and yes the Byz is helping me and I understand that my CSA and all that doesn't not have anything to do with my case. However, it did come forward with my case of PTSD and caught me off guard. I was not prepared for that and I didn't have the right therapy for that, took me time to get therapy and I also came to PC to try to understand that.

Ok, I see it, I see how it came forward and in the last two days after much thought and even this thread I am realizing some important things that I needed to know. I have been working very hard to pull my brain through all this, and it has been extremely hard to understand. I think I get it now, thanks to all the support and the messages that have put me in check and brought me to a more realistic mindset.

I actually called my attorney a few minutes ago and I put him in check. He filed my suit with the wrong information that I finally caught and he noted in the last deposition.
But I asked him today if he ever changed that in the original complaint that he filed that was wrong. Ah ha, he has to look at that now, and I am not going to stop bugging him to correct that. In fact I just decided that tomarrow I am going to call him and ask him that when he does make sure that is corrected and filed right, I wan't a copy of that correction. And maybe I will put that into writing, thinking about that letter that I think needs to get written now as JD suggested.

Today I also asked him if he has contacted the opposing side and he said he is waiting for them to contact him. And I asked him about the necessity for their discovery to be done before a court date is set. Well, today I learned that the court decides the date and wether or not their discovery is done doesn't matter. Hmmm, this is not what he told me before. So I asked him how long does the court take to set a date and he said it is usually a year out and I asked him, well considering how long it has been since this was filed when is the court going to decide or has it set a date? Guess what, he could not answer, he said he had to check my file, can you imagine, there could be a court date set and he doesn't even know that? And then I said well maybe I could call the court and he replied, if you do I will break your neck, and my reply to him was, you don't have to break my neck if you do it. I don't think he liked the new me, do you? I kinda think I woke him up.

I have to learn something new, and the one thing I know, is I am not going to just go away. Ok, I have to push forward, I am not afraid anymore. I needed this thread, it woke me up somehow. I still havent got the right tone for that letter, but I want to mention the several dates of depositions that were scheduled that I did not know about and the ongoing issue that is continuing to present a problem with actually acheiving the accomplishment of getting that deposition done. I am going to make sure that he knows that I am waking up to his mistakes.

Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
eskielover, Rose76