Sometimes people will spend their entire life blaming others for their problems and I suspect your brother may be one of those people. They do not want to take responsibility for any of their actions. It's what I call the "victim syndrome", I named it after my sister.

There comes a point in time when you must cut these people from your life, family or not. You and your father do not deserve such treatment. I am so sorry your going through this.

((((((((((((((((((((((w_i)))))))))))))))))))