Hello, thank you everyone for your feedback.

And no, he does contribute- he makes dinner, and occasionally cleans, and pays half the rent but that is about it. All of the fun stuff we do comes out of my pocket and it is just frustrating. Believe me when I say I am a very strong person, I don't put up with crap from no one but this is a good man and I love him and want to marry him. I am just curious if anyone has any tips to ... help him be less lazy? I don't know if that makes sense.