(((((((Thoopthong)))))))),

Well the two of you definitely need help. Your mom may be going through the change of life, (menopause) and her hormones could be changing and causing these moods swings.
So she really needs to check in with her gynocologist and see what is going on. And you could be dealing with PMS symptoms along with stressing over her instability. There are reasons for these mood swings and the two have to stop and get help instead of just blowing up and then appologizing. Your mom may be going through this menopause and she just isn't getting why she is having these disabling moods, but what you are discribing are definite symptoms.

Dont let this continue, pick a time when you are both calm and start making a plan on figuring out what is causing this.

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