there really isn't anyone as far as the hospital/medical team i can speak with ... i phoned the surgeons office a few weeks ago and tried asking but was told he is booked up solid and when I tried to ask a few questions about his previous experience was told I should know better than that.What????? YOU are the customer. You have a right and an obligation to ask questions.

Psychologically this is hard on so many levels; and I want more from a T than anyone could humanly provide. I think you want from your T what any of us would want. Help in finding relief from the fear and terror.

I think my T's are doing what stormyangels said as far as validating and providing logic; but the moment I heard the risks of the surgery, logic hasn't begun touching the fear.Logic can only go so far in helping fear. Emotions are not 'logical'