(((((phyllis)))))

It sounds like your mom doesn't want to get better. It must be so hard for you to have gone through all this with your mom and are faced with all these worries about her. But the fact of the matter is you can't make her do anything...she has to want it and has to do it herself.

I'm sorry that I can't be more positive about the situation, but please don't give up hope. Sometimes it takes quite a bit for someone to realize that they must change. Until your mom reaches that point she will continue on like this.

Many warm blessings.