I would not leave him just because he is lazy. You tell us he is a good guy, you love him, and your soul mate- it is troubling that he is lazy but leaving him is not the answer. You could very well meet a guy that takes great care of you, pays for everything, yet you don't have a connection with him or he's just a jerk.

I don't know him or the situation, but perhaps he is just unmotivated. A lot of 'lazy' people really don't choose to be lazy; they are just unmotivated. I am assuming you guys are maybe in your mid to late 20's? That's a very tough age for a man. I'm 27 myself. It's tough because you're at that age where a lot of people around you are establishing their careers. If you don't have much of a career lined up, you will be 'lazy.' I would let him know your concerns and tell him when you both are in a good mood. You certainly can't 'change him' overnight but perhaps you can shed some light on the situation for him. He could very well just be depressed. Good luck