It concerns me that he was uncomfortable talking about this issue with you. You won't get far with the issue with this going on. So if your husband goes to therapy you can't? How about if one of you goes each week?
I don't think of what you explained as transference, I think of it as just what is going on with you concerning intimacy.
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