Tamezen,
I recommend that you go to this site:
http://www.theworldoffilipinas.com/f...ex.php?act=idx

It is a website devoted to Fil-Am marriages. There are many Filipinas there who are dealing with issues related to their American husbands, with forums in Tagalog, Bisaya, Waray and so on. I think you'll find ample support there.

Ingat ka.